Please Don't Text and Drive

People are told not to talk on their phone while driving unless they're using a hands free device - I say let's also include don't put on your damn make up while driving, don't eat while driving, don't have such an animated conversation with your passengers that you spend more time looking at them than the road while driving and please, teach your children to behave in the car - kids can cause such distractions!

However, the biggest NEVER is NEVER TEXT WHILE DRIVING! Oh my gawd, I watched this PSA and balled - especially when I saw the baby's eyes, big beautiful blue eyes, just staring, not blinking at all and the emergency worker says she is getting no response. My heart just sank.

Watch this video then pass it on. If you have kids who drive, MAKE them watch this video.

*warning - this video is graphic

Living in the Dark

Um, yea, after I got the last electric bill, we will be living in the dark! The bill was...dundunduuunnn...$250! Holy cripes! We usually have fairly high bills in the summer because of running air conditioners and fans but this is the highest I've ever seen! *passes out*

I was hoping to get a new kitchen sink this fall and I was seriously considering copper sinks because they are so lovely but man oh man, if our electric bill continues to be so high, I have no idea if we'll be able to do anymore remodeling this year!

Driving Towards a Tornado Warning Area

This weather has been driving me batty for the last week and a half! First it rained so hard we got water in our newly refinished basement, then more rain that freaked me out because I was afraid of more water issues (thankfully we had none) and now tornado warnings all over the place!

Yesterday Jeff called around 12:30 pm and told me he had left work early for the day and asked if I wanted to bring Livi to him right then because really severe thunderstorms and possible tornadoes had been forecast. He said I should leave right away to hopefully avoid the storms. Okay, no problem. So we leave and things were fine, it was sunny - although I could see some scary clouds moving in.

About 15 minutes away from Jeff's he calls me asking where I am because it is pouring at his place. I give him my location and he tells me to be careful because it is really bad at his house - very windy with heavy rain.

Not even 2 minutes later, this is what I see is in store for me up ahead:

I called him back and I was like, "Dude, meet me half way, I don't want to drive into this!" and he's all "Hell No! There is a tornado warning right now and the clouds are so low that I've been seeing cloud to ground lightning! I'm not going out in this!" Niiice...okay, so me and the 3 kids will just drive into a tornado warning area.

Honestly I didn't know what to do. I was going to turn around and go home but when I looked in my rear view mirror, the sight wasn't any prettier. FUCK - there goes Dorothy and Toto!

I called CJ and told him the situation and that I might just turn around and come home and he told me that I was more than half way there so I should just continue on. He then went on about how this aspect of my personality is one if the things that annoys him, I get so freaked out about weather. Gee, I'm sorry, I suppose it is fairly normal to drive right into a severe storm, what was I thinking getting all freaked out? *eye roll* He then adds that if I am that worried I should just come home and he'll take Olivia. Well, that idea was just plain stupid. The severe weather alert had extended until at least 8 pm.

I continue on and it begins to get very windy and I see the clouds, they were so low to the ground. Then I see the lightning. Oy vey, I threw up a little in my mouth - oh and my stomach was churning, I suddenly felt the need for a bathroom! Yay for anxiety!

Traffic came to almost a complete halt and then it happened, rain poured out of the sky and the wind blew hard:

It took an eternity to get to Jeff's but we made it safely. I dropped Olivia off and turned right around to come home. At that time I was basically following the storm. Gee, what I have always wanted to be, a 'storm chaser' - NOT!

Needless to say that was the worst part of the day. It continued to rain off and on and even right now it's raining outside but the severe part passed, for now anyway. Seems in my quest to avoid the storms I ran right into them!

Oh and by the way, the basement has remained dry!

Do Libras Need Routine

Libras need some semblance of balance in their lives but can be knocked off balance by the burdens of emotional or physical attachments either of themselves or others. Now, the need for routine? I'm not so sure but I do know that this Libra does!

I have been trying for 3 years now to find some sort of routine when it comes to the mundane aspect of my life. I feel scattered most of the time and have trouble focusing on the task at hand - I get distracted easily.

Over the last week I conducted an experiment and the outcome was just as I expected:

I made sure to get up at least 30 minutes before anyone else. I have noticed that I need that time to wake up and get my thoughts ready for the day. I need peace and quiet - I cannot stand chaos as soon as I awaken and that is exactly what I get when I wake up at the same time the kids do.

So, I began getting up earlier than anyone else and giving myself that alone time. I made coffee, watched the Sun come up, took time for personal reflection. As I enjoyed my cup of coffee in the quiet, I tinkered around online, just surfing the internet. I avoided doing anything that had to do with work. I checked out the latest celebrity news, did some checking on auto insurance quotes (since we're always talking about getting a better deal) and I even found a site with excellent prices on these cute Playmobil Toys - Dante's birthday is next month so I've begun shopping for him.

Since I got 30 - 40 minutes of peace and quiet, by the time the kids woke up I was in a good mood. Just giving myself that relax time made such a difference. I'd make breakfast and then hang with them for a bit and the mornings went so smoothly. After breakfast I made sure to give myself more 'me' time and that consisted of exercise. For 30 - 50 minutes I used the treadmill and then did some floor exercises and used free weights. The kids put on a music channel and would dance while I exercised so it was good for them too!

As for cleaning the house and doing all those 'mommy chores' - I made sure to start some laundry before exercising. Laundry is not a huge deal, I can do that throughout the day. I have delegated cleaning the house to 2 days. Saturday I clean the downstairs, Sunday the upstairs. During the week I wash floors and vacuum as needed but I don't go out of my way. I have found that keeping up with things during the week makes weekend cleaning easier.

By the time I was done with exercising it was usually around 9 -9:30 am. I took a shower and got dressed for the day. By 10 am I would sit down at the computer to work and that began another part of my day but I was ready for it because I had a structured morning.

Today did not work out like that. I overslept and was actually woken up by Dante. Immediately the whining 'I'm hungry' began - the 3 kids running around, fighting, arguing, doing what they do - but when I just wake up that is so much harder to deal with. So here I sit, at 9:30 am - still trying to finish a cup of coffee, still in my sweat pants and t-shirt. No motivation to get on the treadmill. Seems my patience is thin too because I just feel bitchy.

So in answer to the question, 'do Libras need routine?' I say HELL YES

So Far, So Good

We got rain last night and it came down pretty hard a few times and the basement is DRY! Yayaya! I am hoping that last incident was a fluke - I still think because of how hard it rained and the way it rained is what caused the issue.

So I'm up at 'normal' time but it feels early. It's dark and dreary out this morning, I have one of those yummy smelling Village candles lit and I have been hit with waves of the feelings of Autumn. Just seems like Summer is breathing her last breath.

I'm Freaking Out a Bit Inside

Okay Internet, did you read my last entry? The rain and the horror I found in my basement...remember? Well, look:

It's raining and I am freaking out a little inside. Cross your fingers and toes and whatever else you can cross that this will not be a repeat of last week...

When It Rains, It Pours

Well, at least that was the case last night! It rained, HARD, here last night. The interesting thing was that it seriously looked like someone was dumping huge bucketfuls of water out of the sky. Just look at the kids' play area, the mulch was actually pushed over the wood perimeter and onto the sidewalk:

This was not your average hard, steady rain. This was like sheets of water just pouring out of the sky. Puddles and puddles of water throughout the yard and on the sidewalk. It didn't last too long either, maybe an hour.

I was on the phone with my BFF, Jenn, until midnight last night. After we got off the phone I was so ready for bed, so I let Angus out one last time and as I was ready to head to bed I thought, 'I better check the basement. Wouldn't it be something if we got water down there?' Yea, it sure was something.

OhMyGawd! Okay, calm down, Lisa...(easier said than done). I mean, I seriously felt tears well up in my eyes. I sent CJ a text message asking him to call me - he was at work. I wait like 3 minutes, no call. I went upstairs and logged onto Yahoo IM to contact him that way and he replied that he was on an escalation (talking to a pissed off customer) so he was unable to call me at that moment. I wanted to type back WE HAVE WATER IN OUR BASEMENT!!! - but I thought that would not be a good thing to do to him as he was on a call. So I waited, for what felt like hours. I'm not sure what I thought calling him would do. Nothing he can do while he's at work.

I told him and he asked me if the sump pump was working. As far as I could tell it was, but I'm no expert so I suppose at that moment he felt the sudden urge to come home. Thankfully he was able to find coverage for his team at work and come home. We used our mini wet/dry vacuum and got a ton of the water up. We also used our ShamWows and internet, I am not even kidding, those suckers worked! We soaked up so much water with them! (No, this is not a paid post for ShamWow) So we got most of the water up and went to bed around 2:30 am - let me tell you, 7 am comes quick - I feel like a zombie.

The bad news: we got water in our basement

The good news: we do have a water management system in place that works 99% of the time. Since 2005, when we had it put in, there was only one other time we got some water in the basement - in the same spot no less.

Here's how it's supposed to work: the water IS still supposed to come in through the brick walls and it trickles down to an irrigation system that routes the water through the basement (along the bottom of the wall) to the sump pump where it is pumped out. If we did not allow water to still come in, it would fill up inside the brick walls and one day BAM! an explosion of brick and water from the pressure build up. What we think happened is that the water came in like a wave - too much too fast and the irrigation system got overwhelmed. It's really the only explanation - the corner that got wet is the corner that is the known problem area (before we had the basement water managed, like I said, since we've had it done we've only seem some water once). The pump is working fine so we can't think of any other reason that this happened.

The walls are dry - When we finished the basement, we did NOT put the drywall against the brick. In fact, we used metal tracking and studded the walls out about 3-4 inches away from the walls for this very reason. The brick walls are able to breathe and if they get wet, the drywall won't and the tracking is metal so no warped wood. I am so freaking glad we did that!

Our carpet will be fine - this time. The damage was actually very minimal, really no worse than having the carpets shampooed by a crappy shampooer - you know, the ones that don't suck up enough water and so after shampooing the carpet stays wet for hours? Thankfully we chose office grade carpet so its easy to clean and we have more carpet and padding if we'd have to replace it.

Today CJ is going to call the place that did the water management for us since we have a lifetime warranty with them, he wants to hear what they have to say, maybe they can give us more insight as to what happened.

If this should happen again - which I am sure it will, we just may rip the carpet up in that area and put tile down. That way water will be much easier to clean up.

It's a nice little sitting area and I think tile with a throw rug would look just fine, what do you think?

Man Plays With Lions

This is truly amazing - yet really stupid dangerous, don't you think? Wonder when we'll be reading about this man being mauled by 'his' lions?


Disney Vacation Club - Here We Come!

I've started to plan, in my head anyway, our next Disney vacation! I am stoked so much more for this trip than any other because we are going to be Disney Vacation Club members! We are buying into Disney's Bay Lake Tower - that will be our 'home' resort and I cannot wait!

I will have more about this on my Family Disney Vacations blog - I'll get into the details regarding making a purchase, the pros and cons and other things that pertain to making such a huge decision.

Guess if I'm going to be going to Florida every year I better get going on that weight loss plan I've had for oh, I don't know, a year now? I bet with the help of diet pills I won't have any trouble losing. I want to feel better and look better because I want to feel confident relaxing next to this pool:

Oh My Ryan Seacrest, Are You Happy to See Me Or...

I am dying over here! I was reading on Omg! about how Paula Abdul is not going to be on the next season of American Idol, when a related stories photo link caught my eye...and...I went there, only to be smacked in the face with this photo:

Hey everyone, look for your party invitations in the mail because me thinks there's a party going on in Ryan's pants!

Wedding Planning

Over the last year or so, I have been helping a few friends plan weddings and bridal/baby showers. It got to be so much that I even created a blog - 'Weddings, Showers and More' to notate all the ideas I had.

The last person I have had to help actually is a friend I met online. She lives in Florida and actually contacted me through my wedding blog, asking if I knew any good photographers in the Naples area. I found this Naples photographer and I think it would be a great fit for what she wants.

On my end, there will be no wedding in the future so helping others plan is just plain fun for me.
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